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Are You Living A Lie?


If you’re here with me today, it is not by chance our paths crossed at this perfect moment in time - we’re about to begin a beautiful journey together...

Sometimes before we can move forward, we must look at “what is” and we need to first discuss a few confronting truths - but don't worry because this is a good thing and our first step towards a better way of living!

Honestly when MY EYES WERE FIRST OPENED to what I am about to reveal I realised the WHY about my life and circumstances and it finally gave me clarity. As you read through my first of many posts on this topic, my sincere wish is it offers you the same clarity - because once you understand the why, you can find a way to make real changes.


Most of us live or believe our lives to be a series of struggles, hardships, disappointments, health, money and relationship problems- and if you’re here reading this you must have also asked yourself this question – is this is really all there is it our existence?

Through the tears and that feeling of helplessness of a situation that seems hopeless have you ever wondered - why me?

I’ll be honest with you, I have endured a lot in my time here on earth. So believe me when I say I understand how you feel. I am generally a pretty practical person but with the life I have had, I began to ask questions and seek answers.

I mean, how can life just be a series of meaningless processes - birth, education, work, relationships/children, more work, health issues, old age - and that's it - you're done.

Can this really be EVERYTHING?

I mean think about it, it really doesn’t make ANY sense.

Humans are supposed to be the MOST evolved creatures on planet earth but we are no freer (or happier) than an animal is a cage or a hamster endlessly running on a wheel to nowhere.

Just hear me out…

If you sit and really, really think, who is happier and has more freedom? The bird effortlessly soaring in the sky, the tree enjoying the wind through it’s leaves, the water flowing in a stream or you chained to a set of required daily responsibilities and tasks you must fulfil in order to be part of society’s dictated “status quo” - does this really sound like this was the reason you were born?

Now before we go on, this blog is not about suggesting you sell off all your worldly possessions and go live in a monastery or meditate for 30 years on a mountain top or live off water, seeds, fruits and vegetables for the rest of your life - this is a blog about reclaiming your power but for now I just want to paint a picture that startlingly so many of us live and DO NOT REALISE! This "normal" reality has been so cleverly engineered to ensure you never reach your fullest potential or connect with your highest self and never be any the wiser.

As a child you listened to the messages that your well-meaning parents fed you about the world, then you began your education only to end up slaving away in a job that is unfulfilling, with people who don’t appreciate your special qualities and for a pay check that is just enough to cover the minimum repayments of mounting credit card debt and keep a roof over your head.

And in this age of addictive media, there are many of us who come home barely acknowledging our partner, parents, siblings or family and most likely sit down to a evening meal that's fast, easy and processed with hidden chemicals as we mindlessly scroll our cell phones or make the choice to watch the news on TV revealing all the horrors and injustices of the world that day, promptly followed by our "favourite" evening TV shows that highlight the worst in human nature - violence, murder, revenge, an obsession with money, judgement, cheating, back-stabbing, lust, do-whatever-it-takes reality shows, lies, gossip, horror, materialism, corruption, hatred, ageism, bitterness, apocalyptic events - need I go on?

And before you go to bed, you worry about your bills, or the argument you had with a friend or loved one, or you're feeling upset about something that happened that day, or someone who said or did something that hurt you - be honest with yourself. ARE YOU UNWITTINGLY LIVING THIS EXACT LIFE?

So tell me this...

How can you expect to happy - in the true sense of the word if you are living this way and feeding your mind and body nothing to sustain it? Most of us in the western world are completely out of touch with our own bodies, disconnected from people we should care about and ignoring the beauty and wonder of nature which sustains us and gives us life.

The way live our lives is a smorgasbord of mental poison that’s insidiously manipulating us to ensure we NEVER reach our fullest potential, that we are maintained in a dulled, hypnotic state to ensure we are basically mindless drones programmed to ensure our "simple minds" are kept occupied with mindless drivel while the rich get richer and the rest of us aren’t any the wiser. And it affects other facets of of lives too - our health, our relationships, our finances, our personal sense of self - EVERYTHING.

I know the picture I am painting sounds bleak but millions of us are living this way every day and for a very long time I have been one of those people too. Today's society is designed to ensure you are kept a prisoner in the system we call "normal everyday living". If you think about it, our homes are literally our prisons and living a life of negativity (which we often don't even notice) is the surest way to ensure that you never ask "real questions" and expect a better quality of life.

We are slaves to technology, fantastic at basically ignoring our nearest and dearest and even worse, buying into an amazing amount of fakery thanks to the constant presence of media all around us that creates negative feelings within us and does absolutely nothing to enhance the collective consciousness, bring up the human race, nurture our environment or cultivate a sense of purpose and ultimately happiness into our lives.


THE BIGGEST LIE we tell ourselves is that we are POWERLESS VICTIMS OF CIRCUMSTANCE and that there is nothing we can do to change the world we live in or the THE LIFE EXPERIENCES WE HAVE.

Without you even knowing it, we've bought into a victim mentality and GIVEN OUR POWER AWAY and that my friends IS A BIG DEAL!

You did not CHOOSE to come here to earth to be born, live a monotonous, sickly and stressful life and then be dust. The TRUTH IS...


We have a power within us, that when TRAINED AND CULTIVATED DAILY in the right way will create real change and fulfilment in your life and in my next spirituality blog post we will begin to explore some amazing, yet easy to apply concepts. These simple, yet profound ideas and techniques will take you to a new place where you can practically find inner peace and happiness and I will open up about some of my amazing, almost magical experiences - and the best part is, you don’t need to watch a Masterclass, you don’t need to watch a long drawn out video first or pay me to share a "big untold secret", I want nothing from you but your love and for you to be happy because it is time for us to rise together as a society and a collective consciousness.

And I am so excited to share an amazing world of endless possibilities with you very soon!

I know I've given you a lot to taken in and think about today but if are open and can just let go of everything you’ve grown up believing is "normal" and are willing to open your eyes, mind, body, heart and soul then together we can elevate our vibration and consciousness - your source of true power where you can find untold contentment, happiness, health, success and so much more.

If you don't want to miss my blog posts I invite you to subscribe to my private and exclusive mailing list here and to participate in a healthy discussion by sharing your thoughts and experiences below in the comments section below!

Till we meet next time, stay blessed and know I am sending you love and light...

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Mountainman Smith
Mountainman Smith
Apr 03, 2019

Thanks Feritta for the invite. Good message

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